We Have Much To Learn From Kids
I recently came across this video by Spanish organization, Accion Contra El Hambre (Action Against Hunger) featuring children in a little social experiment on sharing. The results highlight just how much we have to learn from kids.
The video also reminded me of a book I read when I was younger. ‘All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten’ by Robert Fulghum offers the perspective that the solution to most of our adult problems may very well be found in the simple rules of childhood. Here is an excerpt…
All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be, I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand pile at school.
These are the things I learned:
- Share everything.
- Play fair.
- Don’t hit people.
- Put things back where you found them.
- Clean up your own mess.
- Don’t take things that aren’t yours.
- Say you’re sorry when you hurt somebody.
- Wash your hands before you eat.
- Flush.
- Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
- Live a balanced life – learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
- Take a nap every afternoon.
- When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.
- Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
- Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup – they all die. So do we.
- And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned – the biggest word of all – LOOK.
Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.
Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. Think what a better world it would be if we all – the whole world – had cookies and milk at about 3 o’clock in the afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.
And it is still true, no matter how old you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together.
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Made me smile at work, thanks Clarence
Lovely video. However, as for the premise that we should learn sharing from kids:
1. Not all kids share. Kids usually have to learn to share first.
2. I can’t imagine a single adults who wouldn’t have shared the food in this experiment. That would have been uncivilised behaviour, and adults have had a long life of learning to share and learning to be civilised
Thanks for the insights, Mados. You’re right, this is certainly an idealized look at things. I even remember coming across a scientific study once where kids already showed a preference over something even without being taught to like or hate it. Which means a like or dislike, be it towards things or living creatures, can be a nature thing, not just nurture.
But that said, I still believe that we, adults, have made some things far too complicated that the solution to some of these problems can be learned from the simplicity of our childhood. :)
Right:-)